#72- So Your Loved One Says "The 12 Steps Don't Work For Everyone"
In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss some of the benefits of 12-step recovery, including their effectiveness and common resistance to them. They emphasize the importance of having an open mind and committing to the program, even in the face of setbacks and relapses. The hosts also share personal stories and anecdotes to illustrate their points, and provide resources for loved ones looking to intervene and help their struggling family members. Overall, they stress the importance of seeking help and support, and not giving up on the potential for recovery.
Episode Highlights
- How even in the midst of addiction, some people still have a sense of caring for others
- How people often make excuses for why A.A. didn't work for them
- They point out that these excuses often have a pro, but there is usually something underlying that makes a person resistant to receiving help
- Encouraging loved ones to separate the addiction from the person and not to carry the addict's negative words with them
- The language of addiction is very powerful and can cause people to resist help
- Repressing feelings due to fear of judgment and shame is a common issue among those struggling with addiction
- Sharing and being vulnerable in recovery can lead to validation and connection with others
- The culture of addiction can vary depending on where someone grew up
- Simple remedial jobs like making coffee and setting up meetings can help build self-esteem and contribute to feeling part of something
- The root of addiction is selfishness and self-centeredness, and receiving help offers a way to combat it
- Simple actions like attending meetings and following the 12 steps can lead to significant transformation
Links and Resources from this Episode
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
Quotes
"There are more pathways to recovery today than any other time in human history."
"The thinking of someone struggling with addiction can be delusional."
"Don't carry the words of an addicted loved one with you, as they often come from a place of defense and disillusionment."
"Honesty and open-mindedness can be difficult for addicts, but they are essential for true recovery."
"Sharing your true feelings and experiences can be scary, but it is necessary for healing and growth."
"When it comes to recovery, open-mindedness is essential for success."
"It's important to remember that every attempt at recovery, even if it ends in relapse, is a learning experience and a step closer to success."
"Intervention is about connecting your loved one to the people who can help them, and following the simple steps of the process can lead to success."